Attachment style describes the patterns you tend to bring to close relationships: how easily you trust, respond to distance, ask for support and handle…
Understanding Love, Attachment & Happiness
A resource by Dr. Jennie Rosier exploring how adult attachment styles shape our relationships — and what we can do to build stronger, happier connections.
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How to identify your dominant attachment style in five minutes
Why You Should Stop Saying You’re Fine When You’re Not
“I’m fine” can sound harmless, polite and efficient. In Australia, where “no worries” and “she’ll be right” are common ways to keep things moving, it is easy…
When Control Starts To Strain Your Relationship
Wanting stability in a close relationship is understandable. You may prefer plans to be clear, promises to be kept and problems addressed quickly. Yet a need…
Why Emotional Check-Ins Strengthen Relationships
A relationship can look settled on the outside while one or both people feel lonely, tense or emotionally exhausted underneath. Work pressure, family…
Building A Stronger Bond With Your Stepchildren
Becoming a stepparent can bring genuine affection, fresh energy and a sense of family purpose, yet closeness rarely develops on a timetable. A child may care…
What to Do When You and Your Partner Have Different Sex Drives
Differences in sexual desire are common in long-term relationships. One partner may want sex often, while the other feels interested less frequently, needs…
How to stop comparing your current relationship to past ones
A new relationship can feel crowded by old memories. A familiar disagreement, a particular silence or a partner’s casual comment may remind you of someone you…
The science of oxytocin and natural ways to strengthen love
Oxytocin is often called the “love hormone”, but that nickname is only part of the story. This naturally occurring chemical messenger is involved in bonding,…
When Affection Disappears During Conflict
Affection often changes during an argument. A partner may stop reaching for your hand, avoid eye contact, become physically distant or respond with clipped…
Why Your Partner’s Relationship With Their Ex Matters
A partner’s former relationship can offer useful information about their attachment patterns, emotional availability, and approach to responsibility. It can…
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